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The Neurofamily Collective

The only community created to support neurofamilies like yours in accommodating your neurodivergent child, balancing those accommodations with real life, and effectively advocating for your entire neurofamily.

  • You’re struggling with things like screentime limits, getting your kids up for school, sensory challenges, potty training, or just getting your kids to take a dang shower.

  • Plus add the fact that you’re overwhelmed, overstimulated, and maybe even neurodivergent yourself and you want to figure out how to be the parent your neurodivergent kids need without completely ignoring your own needs.

Parenting neurodivergent kids and managing a neurofamily isn’t for the faint at heart.

  • You’re juggling everyone’s unique needs and help your family stay regulated when everyone is out of sorts—and trying to do it without compromising my needs to accommodate everyone else.

  • The current state of the world has your head spinning and you keep spiraling in anxiety over the current administration, ADHD med shortages, and the lack of basic community support and resources.

  • The skills and scripts you need to confidently advocate for your child with schools, therapists, the Cub Scouts leader, and even your mother-in-law, and model those important self-advocacy skills for your child.

  • Every member of your neurofamily—not just the kid whose needs shout the loudest—accommodating each other and working together to make sure everyone’s needs are met on a day-to-day basis.

  • A sense of calm, knowing that you are truly the best person to manage your neurofamily, and you are guiding each member to live a life where their needs are met and they can be successful in their unique goals.

But Imagine What It Will Feel Like When You Have…

  • Strategies to meet your neurodivergent child’s needs in a way that leaves them feeling heard, understood, and validated-- without sacrificing your own needs.

  • Confidence in your parenting in any setting—even during a meltdown in aisle 7 of Target with Nosy Nancy staring you down—because you know exactly what each member of your neurofamily needs to get and stay regulated.

  • Your neurodivergent kids actually following basic boundaries like getting to school on time (or doing more than the bare minimum of their homeschool work), picking up after themselves, and following basic hygiene routines.

You know what type of neurofamily you want to build, but there’s a lot that’s still tripping you up!

  • Like navigating setting some boundaries around doing household chores such as putting food and dishes away after use?

  • Or sometimes when your kid is so dysregulated that they want something but refuse the thing they JUST asked for and you just give up even trying because the scrambling for answers is hard on both of you.

  • Or feeling like you have to be a behavioral specialist, a psychologist, a speech therapist, and an occupational therapist on top of staying up to date with all the parenting classes and child development research.

And I get it… This is our kids’ future we’re talking about, so the pressure is on!

And if you don’t have a plan to follow, or a community to fall back on, it can be easy to make some critical mistakes, get off track, and watch your neurofamily go off the rails.

That’s why I’ve created my community-based membership, Neurofamily Collective.

Neurofamily Collective

A community and coaching membership designed to help you create a regulated, balanced, and self-advocating neurofamily by design instead of default.

Danielle Wainer

“You’ve changed my life. You may have been the single most influential Person on our journey, and My son is and will forever be on the receiving end of it!”

Donna Bussell

“Very thankful to have this group four our journey. I’m just rediscovering the support, acceptance, and wisdom!”

Here’s what you get access to every single month in

the Neurofamily Collective

Monthly Balance Q&A

This is where you can ask any and all questions about boundaries, behaviors, routines, or anything about balancing out your neurofamily’s life.

Monthly Ask Me Anything Coaching CAll

This call is open to all questions and allows us to dive deeper into your specific situations. I know that you can’t always attend live, so you can ALWAYS submit a question for the next Ask Me Anything Call. After I answer all pre-submitted questions, I’ll open it up to live questions. We have a strict #NoQuestionUnanswered Policy here!

Monthly Regulate Q&A

This is where you can ask any and all questions about accommodating your neurodivergent kids, meltdowns, or anything to do with creating a more regulated neurofamily.

Monthly Advocate Q&A

This is where you can ask any and all questions about effectively advocating for your neurofamily, building self-advocacy skills, or even request a bespoke advocacy script.

Plus Get Access To The Comprehensive Libraries

The Foundations Library

  • Master Your Mindset

  • Manage Burnout

The Regulate Library

  • Reducing Demands

  • Managing Meltdowns

  • Settling Sensory Needs

The Balance
Library

  • Set & Stick To Boundaries

  • Build Life Skills

  • Create Realistic Routines

  • Handle Difficult Behaviors

The Advocate Library

  • Effective Advocacy

  • Advocating Scripts

  • Self-Advocacy

JOIN Neurofamily collective NOW!

  • Monthly Regulate Q&A ($99 Value)

  • Monthly Balance Q&A ($99 Value)

  • Monthly Advocate Q&A ($99 Value)

  • Monthly Ask Me Anything Coaching Call ($199 Value)

  • The Foundations Library ($150 Value)

  • The Regulate Library ($150 Value)

  • The Balance Library ($150 Value)

  • The Advocate Library ($150 Value)

And you get it ALL for just $27/month!

Hey friend, Kaylene here.

I'm a multiply-disabled neurodivergent adult raising 6 neurodivergent tiny humans with my husband who has ADHD and dyslexia.

We're what I call a neurofamily.

(I’m guessing you are too!)

I'm also a parent coach and I’ve spent the last decade helping parents just like you develop the unique flavor of parenting strategies that ACTUALLY work for their weird-ass neurofamilies. :)

In that time I’ve had the privilege of coaching hundreds of parents with unique circumstances—toddlers, teens, non-speaking, highly verbal, comorbid disorders, single parents, only children, large families, homeschoolers, and more—and I’ve seen what’s actually working right now behind the scenes in families just like yours.

It’s my mission to help empower neurofamilies like ours to build the family lives that we deserve, and that make sense only for us instead of trying to follow “best practices” until we feel like epic failures.

START BUILDING your neurofamily by design TODAY

Time is our most precious resource, and as parents, we both know that our kids are only small for like half a second.

With the insight you gain in the Neurofamily Collective, you will be able to connect with every member of your neurofamily.

They will trust that you are there to meet their needs, respect who they are, and guide them in a way that makes them feel understood.

Imagine spending time together laughing and enjoying each other vs. feeling out of sync and frustrated with each other.

That’s a huge part of what this community is all about, Friend!

You are the architect of your neurofamily
and your time is valuable.

You don’t have to weed through hundreds of “opinions” to find the next step.

You need a community that “gets it” and can offer direct guidance that speaks to the situation you are in.

 My Most Successful Members ask
Questions Like these…

  • Our community is there for you when YOU need it. We get it… some weeks are intense, and others allow for more discovery and breathing room. There is no set time commitment. 

  • ALL of the information in the Neurofamily Collective is intended to be tailored to the needs of your unique neurofamily. Nothing in this program will attempt to put your child into a box for our convenience—We don’t believe in that!

  • We aim to make everything in The Collective accessible! There are many paths to get the information that are executive functioning-friendly… From worksheets to captioned video trainings, we aim to provide a range of resources so you can integrate the information in a way that fits best for you. 

  • You are 100% welcome, even if you don't have a diagnosed neurodivergent child!

    Here's the truth: If you try to implement "normal" parenting strategies with a neurodivergent child, it'll be an epic failure, but if you use neurodivergent-friendly strategies with neurotypical kids it will work out just fine.

    That being said, this course will assume you have a neurodivergent child, so you'll just have to ignore when I say "neurodivergent" and take what applies to you. :)

    I work with parents in my program that have kids who have all sorts of neurodivergencies (and even neurotypical children) so these strategies will work for you, especially since I focus on finding your unique "flavor" of parenting. :)


  • Join the Neurofamily Collective, check out the new foundations course, work through a few of the library resources… And if you decide this program isn’t quite right for you, you are backed by our 100% Hassle-Free Guarantee.

    Simply email me at Kaylene@EmpoweredNeurofamilies.com within 14 days of your purchase and tell me why the membership didn’t work for you. I’ll personally refund 100% of your purchase price.

    There truly is no risk. :)

PS: Parent to Parent, friend to friend,
I genuinely want to see your family thrive.

I know what it’s like to sit on the floor crying because you can’t figure out how to stop the constant meltdowns and you want nothing more than to help your neurodivergent child feel comfortable in their world.

I know what it’s like to wonder if you’ve “created a monster” because you over-accommodated and now your neurofamily has absolutely no boundaries and you’re about to burnout because the only reason your child is regulated is because you bend over backwards to meet their every whim.

I know what it’s like to feel like we finally figured out how to make our neurofamily work, but it all falls apart the second you step outside your home and enter the “real world”, so you feel like you have no choice but to become a total hermit and avoid society as a whole.

And I’m here to tell you, it doesn’t have to be that way, friend.

Together, we can find the unique flavor of parenting strategies that actually work for your neurofamily so that you can have the family life you’ve always wanted.

One where every person’s needs are met. Where co-accommodation is the norm. And where you all enjoy doing life together.

Now all you have to do is take this next step…